Paying Our Dues
The fact that the Indian American population in California has gone up by nearly 50% in the last decade does not come as news to any of us. Over the last few years, I have often referred to my township as a “desi ghetto.”
There’s no denying that our influx has been a shot in the arm to American society. We’ve brought energy, enthusiasm, and education to our endeavors here. Our children significantly contribute to the API-measured success of community schools. Our brightest minds have had a role in technological breakthroughs in Silicon Valley and elsewhere, and our artists and performers have hypnotized American audiences with the richness of our culture.
Unfortunately, some of our more unsavory cultural traits have also migrated with us. The first, and most egregious, is the South Asian belief that rules are meant to be broken and the system is meant to be gamed. The Galleon hedge fund scandal is a conspicuous example: the parties involved were not motivated by greed or financial hardship; rather, it was a gleeful thumbing of the nose to regulatory authorities. But this tendency is visible even on the smallest scale; every weekend I see scores of Corollas and Civics lined up just outside the local park to avoid paying the entrance fees. It is not that the five dollar fee is unaffordable. But why pay if you don’t have to?
This attitude stems from our second cultural attribute—the firm conviction that government is fundamentally inefficient, corrupt, and unnecessary. This mistaken belief drives our choices in the policies, politicians, and laws we support. Coming from from a region that is more ruggedly individualistic than the American West, we subscribe to the theory of every man for himself.
It is not surprising, therefore, that we desis are tribal instead of communal. The same impulse that drives a householder in India to keep his home clean but throw his trash on the street makes us rail against taxes and fees meant for public education, infrastructure, and services for the underprivileged. The same impulse directs our charitable giving to causes that are personally dear rather than socially relevant.
But let’s not forget that we’ve come here because America offers us opportunities that are missing in our home country, and those opportunities arise from a respect for the rule of law, an emphasis on the community over the individual, and the checks and balances that make government accountable to its people. If we truly want to assimilate, we have to start thinking of ourselves as skeins in the American tapestry and not as privileged guests who plan to take home the mini soaps and towels when we leave.
Vidya Pradhan




Comments
I have been great admirer of editorials by Vidya Pradhan for the last ten years. This one has let me down very badly. Vidya is totally off track. The Galleon Fund scandal: Why are you holding Indians above human standard of morality? This nation has been economically brought to its knees by the large scale frauds or near frauds by the "big Giants'.Next comment about free parking; Is it legal to park outside the Public Parks? If yes, then what is wrong with parking there? Are only Indians involved in this sensible way to save unnecessary waste? (Perhaps a little walk from the street to the Park is beneficial).By the way, do Indians not own Mercedes?Or do only the Corolla and Civic owners are the smart ones to park free and save?
Next you criticize Indians for being "tribal" instead of Communal. How long or how many generation did it take for the Germans, Ukranians, Brits, Scots, Irish and many other Ethnic groups to become "Communal"? I submit that many of them still to this day are tribal.Are you aware how strongly tribal Jewish people are? Please Vidya, do not fall below your standard. calling a part of a town a "Desi Ghetto" by an Indian is an insult of the highest level. I have tried to keep this brief but hope you get the point.
Respect for Law? Crime rate among Indian both in Canada and USA is probably the lowest compared to other ethnic groups. Prove me wrong by stats if you can. Indians did not start Mafia or other gangs. As to assimilation, we are pretty well the "first generation" immigrants.Assimilation will take effect starting with next generation:only if we start calling ourselves American or Canadian and not hyphenated Indian... something. Our children must think of themselves as American. This does not mean losing our culture or values or pride in our roots.As you stated, we are not guests, we are here to stay. I look forward to reading future Editorials and many interesting articles in the future CI issues.
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